tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35983809.post2883477332422466775..comments2023-06-01T11:23:44.998-03:00Comments on soulbliss: vent...bleuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00467701792949981337noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35983809.post-72931317908837380002007-04-05T14:55:00.000-03:002007-04-05T14:55:00.000-03:00I understand. I hope you're able to be zen today!I understand. I hope you're able to be zen today!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35983809.post-62355208609622329752007-04-05T14:25:00.000-03:002007-04-05T14:25:00.000-03:00All the crap of childhood or the crap of adulthood...All the crap of childhood or the crap of adulthood--it's like dust. You clean and clean and it looks great for a few days and then it's back. And sometimes it's back and you don't care because you're too busy to really notice. And sometimes it's back and it gets under your skin because you're so upset at the state of the house.<BR/><BR/>Bliss will have his own dust--we all have dust. But you are a fantastic mother and you're giving him the cleaning tools he needs in order to get rid of that dust as it comes up in his life.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there, sweetie.Lollipop Goldsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020874415819057995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35983809.post-15592020305350085872007-04-05T00:09:00.000-03:002007-04-05T00:09:00.000-03:00Sweetie you are so much stronger than you are lett...Sweetie you are so much stronger than you are letting yourself see!<BR/>I am sending you lots of love and strength! I to have some childhood issues that I have found it hard to "let go" of...they somehow creep back into my mind. There is a site that I have found helpful, if you are up for checking it out here is the link:<BR/>http://www.innerbonding.com/index.lasso<BR/><BR/>Darlin you keep hanging in there and know that there is a whole community out here that is thinking of you and sending you our love and support.<BR/><BR/>ErinAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06959816794813024196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35983809.post-83310563515330857082007-04-04T20:08:00.000-03:002007-04-04T20:08:00.000-03:00Oh aren't the hormones just dreadful when it comes...Oh aren't the hormones just dreadful when it comes to this stuff? I have decided that anything related to pregnancy/parenting very much brings up on a physical, psychological and spiritual level anything to do with the pain you yourself experienced as a child and as a result of how you were parented. I know that it's really brought home to me just how bad my mother really was and is and how much my fractured family has damaged my heart. It's like I could just shove it all under the surface before I was TTC or pregnant, but it's floated to the top and needs to be grieved for now. And I'm a "therapy graduate" too!<BR/><BR/>I know the crying sucks, but it's the sadness leaving your body and cleaning it out a bit ready for the new life. Embrace your crying! Go girl!Mermaidgrrrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14236621711615287305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35983809.post-10115520107972399212007-04-03T14:39:00.000-03:002007-04-03T14:39:00.000-03:00Hang in there!Hang in there!Evillagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07853459750239324725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35983809.post-84417613091256200342007-04-03T10:37:00.000-03:002007-04-03T10:37:00.000-03:00Sending you calm and reassuring thoughts.Sending you calm and reassuring thoughts.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08541457131291401237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35983809.post-57299664218063699932007-04-03T09:22:00.000-03:002007-04-03T09:22:00.000-03:00sometimes venting about these huge things (that yo...sometimes venting about these huge things (that you think you should've permanently let go by now)is completely okay. there are so many others out there (and reading you?) that haven't come as far as you yet, in terms of dealing/healing. what you see as venting could actually be relief to someone who can't find the words.<BR/><BR/>so. vent away. tell your story if you need to. there's a lot of love around here.<BR/><BR/>peace.ohchickenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16965782534798318412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35983809.post-64320622911654284612007-04-03T07:56:00.000-03:002007-04-03T07:56:00.000-03:00Hang in there...you're doing great! I deal contin...Hang in there...you're doing great! I deal continuously with the sexual abuse I faced as a child - even though it happend about 20 years ago. We never, ever "get over it" and it's unrealistic to think that you ever will. Trauma is just that...trauma. And as one of my many good therapists once told me, every new phase in our lives is a new way to have to confront the same pain. <BR/><BR/>You'll get through this...and don't worry about Bliss. He has a loving, supporting parent who would never hurt him. That is what children need, and what he is lucky enough to have.Mikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13354516790911567435noreply@blogger.com